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The Thinking Lab - Letting go of Controlling Others- for Members
October 27, 2020 –
Topic: Letting go of Controlling Others
It's common to have a "manual" for how other people should behave. In this class, we'll discuss:
-Why your prescriptions on how other people should behave cause you misery
-How to reconceive issues that "can't" be solved without other people changing
-The role of boundaries in dealing with other people's misbehavior
As preparation for this class, please do the following exercise: Identify one person in your life who you would like to be different. Make a list of at least three things you would like for them to change, which you think would make you happier.
You can bring your example to class, or, send me a note beforehand so I can discuss your example anonymously.