Topic: Maintaining a Valuing Attitude

Once you understand the difference between "motivation by love" and "motivation by fear," it seems like you should find it easy to stay on a "motivation by love" premise. In practice, there are challenges. Bad things happen. Threats appear on the horizon. Limiting beliefs cloud your attitude. How do you maintain a valuing attitude when your attention is pulled to the negative? And why is it important to do so? Aren't there situations in which it is proper to be negative?